Can an Adult Child Get Paid as a Caregiver in Pennsylvania?

Analic Mata-Murray
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Pennsylvania caregiver payment guide

Last checked: May 18, 2026

Yes, an adult child may be able to get paid to care for a parent in Pennsylvania. The path depends on the parent’s Medicaid status, care needs, managed care plan, VA status, and whether the parent can safely pay privately.

There is no single Pennsylvania program that pays every adult child caregiver. Start by asking about Community HealthChoices, participant-directed services, the local Area Agency on Aging, and VA caregiver benefits if the parent is a veteran.

Quick answer

An adult child can sometimes be paid to care for a parent in Pennsylvania if the parent qualifies for a program that allows family caregivers. The most common public route is Medicaid long-term services and supports through Community HealthChoices, often with participant-directed services.

Adult children may also be paid through private pay, but this should be handled with a written caregiver agreement. For veterans, VA caregiver programs or pension add-ons may help, but the rules are different from Medicaid.

Rules can change. Counties, managed care plans, waiver contractors, and agencies may use different names. Always confirm with official Pennsylvania sources before you make money or care decisions.

Start here

  1. Call Pennsylvania’s Long-Term Living Helpline at 1-800-753-8827. Ask for help with Community HealthChoices, home care, and participant-directed services.
  2. If your parent is 60 or older, call the local Area Agency on Aging. Ask about OPTIONS, the Caregiver Support Program, respite, and help with a benefits screening.
  3. If your parent already has a Community HealthChoices plan, call the plan. Ask the service coordinator whether an adult child can be hired under the approved care plan.

Main programs and routes

RouteWho it may helpWhere to start
Community HealthChoicesAdults age 21 or older who qualify for Medicaid long-term services and supports, including some people with both Medicare and Medicaid.Call the Long-Term Living Helpline at 1-800-753-8827 or apply for long-term care services through Pennsylvania DHS.
Participant-directed servicesPeople approved for certain home and community-based services who want more say over who provides care.Ask the Community HealthChoices plan, service coordinator, or Independent Enrollment Broker about participant direction.
OPTIONS ProgramPennsylvania residents age 60 or older who need help staying at home. It may help with services, care management, and support.Call the local Area Agency on Aging or the Pennsylvania Department of Aging at 717-783-1550.
Caregiver Support ProgramUnpaid caregivers who help an older adult or a person who meets program rules. It may reimburse approved caregiver costs.Call the local Area Agency on Aging and ask for the Caregiver Support Program.
VA caregiver or pension benefitsVeterans or surviving spouses who meet VA rules. A son or daughter may qualify as a caregiver under some VA rules.Ask the VA about PCAFC and Aid and Attendance. A county veterans office may also help.
Private caregiver agreementFamilies where the parent has money and wants to pay an adult child directly.Talk with an elder law attorney or tax professional before payments begin, especially if Medicaid may be needed later.

Main options for adult children in Pennsylvania

The right path depends on the parent’s benefits, care needs, income, assets, age, and veteran status. Some routes may pay a caregiver. Some may pay an agency. Some may reimburse costs. Some may only give unpaid support.

Medicaid long-term care at home

Pennsylvania uses Community HealthChoices for many adults who need long-term services and supports. If the parent qualifies, the care plan may include personal assistance, respite, service coordination, and participant-directed services.

Start with Medicaid HCBS waivers explained if these terms are new.

Participant-directed care

This is the Medicaid route that may let the person choose a trusted worker instead of using only an agency worker. Pennsylvania may call this participant direction, consumer direction, or Services My Way.

Ask whether an adult child can be hired as a direct care worker under the approved care plan.

Aging programs

The OPTIONS Program and the Caregiver Support Program can help some families who are not in Medicaid long-term services. These programs may help with services, respite, supplies, or caregiver costs. Funding and local rules may limit help.

Ask your local Area Agency on Aging what is open now.

VA benefits

If your parent is a veteran, VA programs may help. PCAFC may give a monthly stipend to an approved primary family caregiver. VA Aid and Attendance may add money to a VA pension for a veteran or survivor who needs help with daily care.

Start with VA Aid and Attendance.

Private pay

Your parent may be able to pay you from their own funds. Do not handle this with casual cash payments. A written caregiver agreement can help show what work is paid and why the payment is fair.

Use the care cost calculator to think through hours and costs before you agree.

Medicaid and self-directed care

What Community HealthChoices is

Community HealthChoices is Pennsylvania’s Medicaid managed care program for many adults who need long-term services and supports. It is for adults age 21 or older who meet the program rules.

Some people qualify because they have both Medicare and Medicaid. Others qualify because they receive long-term supports through Medicaid and need help with everyday personal tasks.

Being approved for Medicaid health coverage is not always the same as being approved for long-term care services. Ask for a long-term services and supports screening if your parent needs help with bathing, dressing, toileting, transfers, meals, memory needs, or safety.

Can an adult child be hired?

Sometimes. Under Pennsylvania participant-directed services, a person may be able to employ a personal attendant instead of using only an agency worker. In CHC waiver materials, participants may choose to hire and manage staff under employer authority, and Services My Way may allow the participant to select and manage staff for personal assistance-type services.

The exact family member rules must be confirmed for the parent’s plan and service. Ask whether an adult child can be the paid worker. Also ask whether payment is blocked if the adult child is the parent’s power of attorney, legal guardian, representative, or paid household manager.

Important Pennsylvania warning

Do not assume you can be paid just because you are the main caregiver. The parent must qualify. The service must be approved. The hours must be in the care plan. The caregiver must pass the program’s worker rules.

Ask the service coordinator to explain the family caregiver rules in writing or point you to the current plan handbook or waiver rule.

Words to ask for

When you call, use the terms the agency may use.

“My parent needs help at home with daily care. I am the adult child. I need to ask about Community HealthChoices, long-term services and supports, and participant-directed personal assistance services. Can an adult child be hired as the direct care worker if it is in the approved care plan?”

Who may be involved

Your parent may deal with more than one office. This can include:

  • the County Assistance Office for Medicaid eligibility;
  • the Independent Enrollment Broker for long-term care enrollment steps;
  • a Community HealthChoices managed care plan;
  • a service coordinator;
  • a financial management services agency that handles worker payroll and tax forms.

Services that may matter

For approved Community HealthChoices long-term services and supports, the care plan may include services such as personal assistance, respite, participant-directed community supports, financial management services, and service coordination.

Personal assistance can be the key service for many adult children because it may cover help with daily tasks. The exact tasks and hours depend on the assessment and care plan.

Services My Way and other self-directed terms

Pennsylvania materials may use terms such as Consumer-Employer Model, Services My Way, participant direction, or self-directed services. These words can be confusing.

The main idea is this: the person receiving care may have more say in who provides care. In some models, the participant or representative helps hire and manage the worker. A payroll agency helps with tax and payroll tasks.

Ask the plan which self-directed model is open for your parent and whether it allows an adult child.

Live-in caregiver options

If you already live with your parent

Living with your parent does not automatically make you a paid caregiver. It also does not automatically block payment. The answer depends on the program.

For Medicaid participant-directed care, ask whether live-in workers are allowed, whether any tasks are excluded because of normal household duties, and how time must be recorded.

Structured Family Caregiving in Pennsylvania

You may see the phrase “Structured Family Caregiving” online. Some states use that name for programs where a caregiver lives with the person and receives support or pay.

I did not find a current official Pennsylvania Medicaid older-adult program using that exact name. Pennsylvania does have Community HealthChoices, participant-directed services, the Caregiver Support Program, and Domiciliary Care. Ask the Community HealthChoices plan or the Area Agency on Aging if a local contractor uses a similar name.

Domiciliary Care is different

Pennsylvania’s Domiciliary Care program is a certified living arrangement for adults who cannot live alone and do not need 24-hour skilled nursing care. The provider lives in the home and receives a monthly payment.

This is not the same as simply paying an adult child to care for a parent in the parent’s home. If this sounds close to your situation, ask the local Area Agency on Aging whether Domiciliary Care is available and whether a family member can qualify as a provider.

Respite if you need backup

If you live with your parent and cannot keep going without help, ask about respite. Respite means short-term care that gives the regular caregiver a break.

Start here: respite care for caregivers.

If your parent pays you privately

A parent can often choose to pay an adult child for care from the parent’s own money. But the family should treat it like a real work agreement.

A written caregiver agreement can help prevent family fights, tax problems, and Medicaid problems later.

What a caregiver agreement should cover

  • the start date;
  • the care tasks you will do;
  • the hourly rate or flat rate;
  • how hours will be tracked;
  • how often you will be paid;
  • what happens if the parent goes to the hospital or a nursing home;
  • who can end the agreement;
  • signatures from the parent and caregiver.

The pay should be reasonable for the work in your area. Do not backdate the agreement. Do not call a gift “pay” after the fact.

If your parent may need Medicaid now or within five years, talk with an elder law attorney before payments begin. Pennsylvania Medicaid may review transfers during the look-back period.

Tax and Medicaid cautions

Taxes

Paid caregiving can count as income. Depending on the facts, the caregiver may be a household employee, an employee through an agency, or self-employed.

The IRS says household workers can include caretakers and health aides when the household controls what work is done and how it is done. Family caregiver tax rules can be different based on the relationship, the home, and who controls the work.

Read more here: caregiver tax deductions and tax issues. For your own taxes, ask a tax professional.

Medicaid look-back

If your parent applies for Medicaid long-term care, Pennsylvania may review assets transferred, sold, or given away during the 60 months before the application. If the state decides your parent gave away assets or paid less than fair market value, it may create a penalty period.

This is why caregiver agreements and clear records matter. Learn the basics here: Medicaid look-back period.

Medicaid spend-down

If your parent is over the Medicaid income or asset limits, do not spend money without advice. Some spending may help. Some spending may hurt eligibility.

Start with Medicaid spend-down, then confirm with the County Assistance Office or a qualified elder law attorney.

Estate recovery

Pennsylvania may try to recover certain Medicaid long-term care costs from the estate of a person who received services after age 55. This can include home and community-based services.

Ask about estate recovery before you make decisions about a home, deed, caregiver pay, or long-term care application.

Medicare is not the same as Medicaid

Medicare may cover some home health services when the person meets Medicare rules, such as needing skilled care and being homebound. Medicare does not pay for long-term custodial care when personal care is the only help needed.

This means Medicare usually is not the route for paying an adult child for ongoing daily care.

How to start

Step 1: Write down the care needs

List the help your parent needs each day. Include bathing, dressing, toileting, eating, walking, transfers, medicines, memory help, supervision, meals, laundry, rides, and night care.

Step 2: Check Medicaid status

Find out if your parent has Medicaid, Medicare, both, or neither. If your parent has Medicaid and needs daily help, ask about Community HealthChoices long-term services and supports.

Step 3: Call the right office

If your parent needs Medicaid long-term care, call the Long-Term Living Helpline at 1-800-753-8827 or the PA Consumer Service Center at 1-866-550-4355. If your parent is 60 or older, also call the local Area Agency on Aging.

Step 4: Ask about adult child caregiver pay

Use clear words. Ask about participant-directed personal assistance services. Ask if an adult child can be hired. Ask what roles are not allowed, such as power of attorney, legal guardian, spouse, or representative payee.

Step 5: Get the answer in writing

If someone says no, ask why. Ask which rule applies. Ask if there is another route, such as a different service, respite, OPTIONS, the Caregiver Support Program, or VA benefits.

Phone script

“Hi. I care for my parent in Pennsylvania. My parent needs help with daily care at home. I need to know if they can be screened for Community HealthChoices or other long-term services and supports. I also need to ask whether an adult child can be paid through participant-directed care. What is the next step?”

Documents to gather

  • parent’s full legal name, date of birth, address, and phone number;
  • Medicare card and Medicaid card, if any;
  • Social Security award letter or proof of income;
  • bank statements and other asset records;
  • health insurance cards;
  • doctor names, diagnoses, medicine list, and hospital discharge papers;
  • proof of help needed with daily tasks;
  • power of attorney or guardianship papers, if any;
  • denial letters or notices from Medicaid, a plan, or an agency;
  • caregiver time notes showing dates, hours, and tasks.

Use caregiver checklists to keep papers in one place.

Common problems

  • The parent has Medicaid health coverage but has not been screened for long-term services.
  • The adult child is also power of attorney or legal guardian, which may block payment under some routes.
  • The care plan does not approve enough hours.
  • The family pays cash without a written caregiver agreement.
  • The family misses an appeal deadline after a denial or service cut.
  • The caller asks, “Can I get paid?” instead of asking for the exact program and service.

If the first answer is no

Ask for the reason. Ask for the rule. Ask if the answer is about Medicaid eligibility, care level, family caregiver rules, worker paperwork, or the number of approved hours.

If services are denied, reduced, or ended, read the notice right away. Pennsylvania fair hearing rights may apply. The notice should explain how to appeal and where to send the appeal.

Keep copies of every notice. Write down the date, time, phone number, and name of each person you spoke with.

For a broader starting point, see Can I get paid to be a caregiver? You can also use the caregiver pay quiz to sort the main paths.

What about paid leave from work?

Pennsylvania does not have a broad statewide paid family leave program for all workers. Some workers may have unpaid job-protected leave under the federal Family and Medical Leave Act, called FMLA.

FMLA can help some eligible workers take leave to care for a parent with a serious health condition. It does not pay the caregiver by itself. Ask your employer’s human resources office what leave, sick time, or paid time off may apply.

Resumen breve en español

En Pennsylvania, un hijo adulto a veces puede recibir pago por cuidar a su padre o madre. La ruta más común es Medicaid de cuidado a largo plazo, Community HealthChoices, si el padre califica y el plan aprueba los servicios.

Llame a la línea de Long-Term Living al 1-800-753-8827 o a la Agencia Local para Personas Mayores. Pregunte por Community HealthChoices, servicios dirigidos por el participante, OPTIONS y el Caregiver Support Program.

No empiece pagos privados sin un acuerdo escrito y consejo profesional si Medicaid puede ser necesario.

FAQ

Can Pennsylvania Medicaid pay an adult child caregiver?

Sometimes. The parent must qualify for the right Medicaid long-term care service, and the care plan must approve the service and hours. The adult child must meet worker rules. Ask the plan whether the adult child’s role, such as power of attorney or guardian, affects payment.

Who should I call first?

Call Pennsylvania’s Long-Term Living Helpline at 1-800-753-8827 if your parent needs long-term care at home. If your parent is age 60 or older, also call the local Area Agency on Aging.

Can I be paid if I live with my parent?

Maybe. Living together does not answer the question by itself. Ask the Community HealthChoices plan or service coordinator whether live-in workers are allowed and how hours must be recorded.

Does the OPTIONS Program pay adult children?

OPTIONS may help older adults stay at home with services such as care management, meals, personal care, and other supports. It is not the same as a guaranteed adult child paycheck. Ask the local Area Agency on Aging what services are open and whether any family caregiver support applies.

Can my parent just pay me?

Possibly. If your parent pays you privately, use a written caregiver agreement, keep time records, and report taxes as required. Get legal or tax advice if Medicaid may be needed now or later.

What if my parent is a veteran?

Ask the VA about PCAFC and Aid and Attendance. PCAFC may provide a stipend to an approved family caregiver when the veteran and caregiver meet VA rules. Aid and Attendance may add money to a VA pension for a person who needs help with daily activities.

About this guide

This guide is for Pennsylvania families trying to find real ways an adult child may be paid or supported as a caregiver. Program rules can change. Managed care plans and local agencies may use different terms.

Before you apply, confirm the current rule with the Pennsylvania Department of Human Services, the Pennsylvania Department of Aging, the local Area Agency on Aging, the Community HealthChoices plan, or the VA.

Disclaimer

This is general information, not legal, tax, medical, or financial advice. For legal or tax questions, talk with a qualified professional in your state.

Official sources used

Analic Mata-Murray, Managing Editor at CaregiverBenefits.org
About the author
Analic Mata-Murray
Managing Editor, CaregiverBenefits.org
🎓 BA Communications & Journalism 📋 11+ years in benefits navigation 🌎 Bilingual English / Spanish 🤝 Salvation Army volunteer translator

Analic Mata-Murray holds a Communications degree with a focus on Journalism and Advertising from Universidad Católica Andrés Bello. She has spent over 11 years as a volunteer translator for The Salvation Army, helping Spanish-speaking families access government programs, emergency aid, and poverty alleviation resources — often during the most difficult moments of their lives.

That experience taught her that the biggest barrier to getting help is not eligibility — it is understanding. Most families who miss out on benefits do not miss out because they do not qualify. They miss out because the system is written in a language nobody actually speaks. That is the problem she set out to fix at CaregiverBenefits.org.

As Managing Editor, Analic oversees all content on this site to make sure every guide is accurate, up to date, and written in plain English that a sixth grader could follow. Her specialties are community resources, Medicaid programs, housing assistance, and emergency aid — the exact programs that most caregivers need and most websites bury in jargon.

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